Clutter clearing involves many decisions about what to keep and what to let go. To help with this, here’s a simple and highly effective method that will enable you to declutter your home with confidence.
The Clutter Test consists of three simple questions you can ask yourself about any item:
- Does it lift my energy when I think about it or look at it?
- Do I absolutely love it?
- Is it genuinely useful?
If the answer is not a resounding yes to question 1, and an equally resounding yes to either question 2 or 3, then what is it doing in your life?
Understanding how clutter affects you
Most people have no idea how much their clutter affects them. They fondly believe it to be an asset, or at least a potential asset after it has been sorted through and organized. However in the 35+ years that I’ve been conducting clutter clearing consultations around the world, what I’ve seen again and again is that the positive effects of letting go of clutter far outweigh any perceived benefits of keeping it.
The reason for this lies in understanding that your home is a mirror of yourself. When you keep items that you do not love or use, stagnant energy will accumulate around them. And this doesn’t just affect the energy of your space – it will also have a corresponding stagnating effect on your life. That’s why people who have a lot of clutter feel stuck. And it’s also why clutter clearing feels so freeing. It clears out the old to make room for the new and removes stagnant energy so that your life starts moving again.
How to use The Clutter Test
When sorting through your things, you are likely to discover that your mind is very good at coming up with convincing reasons to keep an item rather than let it go. There are endless ways in which something could come in useful someday, after all.
But where do you draw the line? How long do you keep something in the hope that this will happen? And how much are you prepared to put up with the stagnating effect it will have on the energy of your home and your life in the meantime?
A much better way to decide whether to keep something or let it go is to bypass your mind and let your body be your guide. Here’s how The Clutter Test works…
Begin by finding an object in your home that you feel neutral about – a functional item that you could easily replace if you needed to. When you think about it or look at it, the centre of gravity of energy in your body will naturally rest at waist level, which is the neutral position. This is an item you could keep or let go. It really doesn’t matter which you choose.
Now find an item you don’t like, such as something you bought but have never found a use for. This will cause your energy to drop, especially if you wasted a lot of money on it. You may not ordinarily be aware of this movement of energy, but your body feels it each time you think about the item or look at it, consciously or unconsciously. It’s no wonder that people who live surrounded by clutter feel so tired and drained.
For the final part of the exercise, find an item that you absolutely love – something that means a lot to you such as a favourite teddy bear, a gift given to you by someone special, or an item that reminds you of very happy times. This will cause your energy to rise. These are the types of items you will usually want to keep, but before you make your final decision, there is one level deeper to go. Ask yourself:
Do I absolutely love it?
If so, does it really inspire me, or is it just “nice”?
Do I already have enough of this type of item for my needs?
In spite of how much I love it, does it also have sad associations in my life?
Is it genuinely useful?
If so, when did I actually last use it?
When, realistically, am I likely to use it again?
These questions will help you to weed out items you may at first be inclined to keep but, on deeper reflection, realize that you don’t really want or need.
Does it spark joy?
If you’ve read Marie Kondo’s books, you may recognize some similarity between the first part of The Clutter Test (Does it lift my energy?) and her method (Does it spark joy?).
The Clutter Test first appeared in my book, Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui, which was published in the UK in 1998. It was translated into Japanese and became a national bestseller in Japan eight years before Kondo’s book was published. She mentions in her first book that she devoured every book about tidying that had ever been published in Japan, so she will certainly have read it.
However, the two methods are actually very different.
Using joy as a barometer is not a reliable method for whether to keep something or let it go. I’ve met people, for example, who swear that every item in their home sparks joy, but their rooms are so full of stuff they can hardly move. They use joy as an excuse to continue to acquire new things and never throw anything away. The Clutter Test brings a reality check to the process (questions such as, ‘Do I already have enough of this type of item for my needs?’, or ‘When, realistically, am I likely to use it again?’).
There’s also no need to pick up and hold every single item you own to make a decision about it, as Kondo prescribes. The average American home contains over 300,000 things, so this could take a very long time! It’s good to start with just one item at a time and then as your clutter clearing muscle develops, you’ll be able to do much larger quantities — whole shelves, boxes or closets in one go. And never start by piling all your clothes (or other categories of items) in the centre of a room. That’s a sure recipe for overwhelm, as many despairing people who have tried this have contacted me to say.
The most notable difference with The Clutter Test, though, is that it does not invite you to view material possessions as a source of joy in your life at all. It’s enough to sort them into those you love or have a use for, and let the rest go. The reason for this is that joy is not an everyday commodity you can expect to feel more or less permanently after you have sorted and tidied your things. Yes, it’s better to have possessions that uplift you rather than those that pull your energy down. But expecting them to truly bring you joy is taking it too far. It’s a path to an unfulfilling and meaningless life.
After The Clutter Test, what next?
When you live surrounded by clutter, it’s impossible to have clarity about what you are doing in your life. Aim to have around you the things you need in order to do what you’re here to do, but not so much that it burdens you or holds you back. Keep the things you love and use, and let the rest go. Only then can you get your life back on track and start to make a difference in the world.
Copyright © Karen Kingston, 2016